About This Site

I know that marriage is hard. I know that every marriage is different. I know that everyone who marries brings along their own set of baggage that both parties must deal with.

This blog is the story of my marriage and I’m choosing to share my journey for two reasons: I want to take control of my life and I want to inspire others to take control of theirs.

This is the journey of taking back my life from a narcissistic spouse.

Latest from the Blog

Hoovering or Change?

I don’t know guys, I’ve heard of people wanting to change and stuff but I’ve not heard of narcissistic types wanting to change. We’ve been writing back and forth a little bit over email and if I didn’t know any better, I would say the man actually wants to change. However, I do know better … Continue reading Hoovering or Change?

Will It Ever End?

Well I tried to end it tonight. I don’t know what part of me thought I could do this easily or at least somewhat easily. I kind of thought I would have to claw myself out of this but God, I was hoping I wouldn’t have to. My mind just gets so twisted up when … Continue reading Will It Ever End?

Letting Go

I have realized that the entire time I have been separated, I am still letting my husband control me. You should see what I do when he calls me, I drop everything and answer the phone. I’ve been seeing him every weekend, not hanging up on him or ending our conversation when he gets angry … Continue reading Letting Go