About This Site

I know that marriage is hard. I know that every marriage is different. I know that everyone who marries brings along their own set of baggage that both parties must deal with.

This blog is the story of my marriage and I’m choosing to share my journey for two reasons: I want to take control of my life and I want to inspire others to take control of theirs.

This is the journey of taking back my life from a narcissistic spouse.

Latest from the Blog

More Loss

I don’t even know what to say anymore. I just know that my recent attempts to stay positive have failed miserably. I was trying so hard to stay positive during this challenging time in my life while also staying focused on learning programming.  It’s been quite difficult because my husband thinks that I have my … Continue reading More Loss

Positive Thoughts

Well it has been quite a while since I’ve written in this blog. With the recent news of losing my job, I have increased my efforts to expand my career options. I’m unfortunately in a pretty rural area and finding a lab tech position will be challenging unless I want to drive an hour one … Continue reading Positive Thoughts

I Didn’t Expect This One

Does any one ever feel like their world is crumbling around them? You know like when one of your strongest foundations falls apart or when the one thing you thought would be constant suddenly changes. You just get this sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach because suddenly you realize that nothing in your … Continue reading I Didn’t Expect This One